I am reminded of Stephen the martyr who was beaten by a group of men until he went to be with the Lord. Stephen was filled with the Holy Spirit! He was also filled with Selflessness. His first focus was to remain faithful to his Savior and God. His second focus was to remain faithful to his Savior and God! His third focus was to remain faithful to his Savior and God!
At no time did Stephen state, "Dear God, I don't deserve this!" Stephen is one of our examples to learn from when we experience bad things from people; even those who may claim to be Christian.
Certainly, depending on the circumstances, and if we're led by the Holy Spirit to point out to them the error or wrongness of their behavior, we can express our concerns. However, even more critical than this is to adopt Stephen's words, "Lord, do not hold this sin against them!"
In our humanness, this is difficult to do. However, we must recognize that it is in our weakness that God's power and strength is best experienced. Let us acknowledge to God that we are weak, and ask Him to give us His strength to carry us forward according to His will, not our will. This focus on selflessness is healthy. If we focus on our hurts, we will not forgive easily, or may not forgive at all. God tells us in His Word that vengeance is His! He will deal with unfair situations that we experience according to His timing.
We may never know what God does to take care of the "wrongs" we experience. He wants us to focus on Him, giving Him praise and worship for his goodness, grace, and holiness. Will you take some time right now to praise Him for who He is and what He has done for us through His Son and His Holy Spirit? Let's also praise Him for what is yet to come for us as believers; eternity in heaven!
At no time did Stephen state, "Dear God, I don't deserve this!" Stephen is one of our examples to learn from when we experience bad things from people; even those who may claim to be Christian.
Certainly, depending on the circumstances, and if we're led by the Holy Spirit to point out to them the error or wrongness of their behavior, we can express our concerns. However, even more critical than this is to adopt Stephen's words, "Lord, do not hold this sin against them!"
In our humanness, this is difficult to do. However, we must recognize that it is in our weakness that God's power and strength is best experienced. Let us acknowledge to God that we are weak, and ask Him to give us His strength to carry us forward according to His will, not our will. This focus on selflessness is healthy. If we focus on our hurts, we will not forgive easily, or may not forgive at all. God tells us in His Word that vengeance is His! He will deal with unfair situations that we experience according to His timing.
We may never know what God does to take care of the "wrongs" we experience. He wants us to focus on Him, giving Him praise and worship for his goodness, grace, and holiness. Will you take some time right now to praise Him for who He is and what He has done for us through His Son and His Holy Spirit? Let's also praise Him for what is yet to come for us as believers; eternity in heaven!
